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19 Reasons to Stop Drinking (Before it’s too Late)

Written by Mike Jacobsen.

Alcohol is all around us. It is advertised on the television, on billboards, in magazines, on public transport. Literally everywhere. It is sold in supermarkets, sports events, the cinema, hell even my local zoo sold beer last time I was there.

When something is this pervasive in our day-to-day lives it is often difficult to take a step back and examine how it impacts us; both personally and as a society.

When enjoyed responsibly alcohol can be beneficial in many ways. As humans though we have a tendency to go overboard when it comes to alcohol and in doing so bring about some of its more negative effects.

If you feel like you might have a drinking problem and are looking into your options for quitting then consider reading this post also – How to Quit Drinking – The 8 “Simple” Steps to a New Sober You

Otherwise let’s take a look at 19 reasons why you might want to quit. Note this list is not exhaustive.

1: No more pang of dread in the morning – You know the feeling. That wave of fear and shame that washes right over you the moment you wake up.

“What did I do last night?”

What follows is an attempt at piecing together the fragments of the night. Often unsuccessfully.

Great book by Tom Sykes

Without the booze this feeling goes away for the most part. There’s still the chance you did something embarrassing the night before but it won’t be because of any drunken foolishness.

2: No more hangovers – The price of a drink today is the pain you feel tomorrow. I used to call it borrowing happiness from tomorrow. My friends have some more colorful ways to describe the feeling:

“Like sh*t warmed up”
“Head like a box of hammers”
“Like I’ve gone 10 rounds with Mike Tyson”
or that one friend who will not even partake in conversation
“F*ck off mate, I’m dying here”

What ever way you phrase it hangovers suck. Suck massively.

Sure you can dampen the symptoms of a hangover by drinking plenty of water, replenishing your electrolytes and getting a good night’s sleep. But the only true cure for a hangover is to not drink in the first place.

3: No more apologies – Needing to justify your behavior as “something I only did because I was drunk”. Sure it may work the first few times and the wronged party forgives you. But once you start making it a regular occurrence people will be less forgiving.

People are much less forgiving when it comes to repeated mistakes: especially ones that are alcohol fueled. The goto response you will hear is “if you know you are like this when you drink, why don’t you just not drink”.

4: No more sneaking, lying and hiding – No more booze hidden around the house. No more lying to friends and family about how many you have had. No sneaking out to tie on a couple of quick ones. No need to keep track of all the local closing hours to know where you can get the next drink from.

5: No more beer belly – A pint of lager has around 180 calories. That is about the same calories as a slice of pizza. Think about that. If you go out down the pub on a Saturday afternoon and tie on 6 or so pints. That is a full pizza in calories.

If you were sitting down for dinner you wouldn’t order 2 pizzas. So why do we think drinking our calories is somehow more reasonable.

Answer is that it’s not and we are just kidding ourselves into thinking it is.

Cut the booze and watch as those pounds fall off.

6: More money – Start saving money the second you stop drinking. The price of alcohol is increasing year on year in most developing countries. Here in the UK a pint of lager can easily set you back over £4. Even more if you head into London for your drinking. That price is expected to rise again this year as the government look to increase the taxes on alcohol even more.

And it’s not just the price of the booze itself you will be saving on. It’s all the incidental costs incurred by drinking. The late night drunken internet purchases. The taxis between bars because drunk you doesn’t like the bus. The late fees on bills that are not paid because drunk/hungover people are not exactly reliable.

And for my American friends. Cutting out the booze is good for your health (more on this later) which, in the long run, will result in lower medical bills.

7: More time – A little mathematical formula:

No time spent in the pub + No time spent hungover + Better quality sleep = So much more free time!

8: Less injuries – Whether it is from falling over, fighting or just plain dumb misadventure (“I can climb that wall no problem”) the number of accidents that can be directly attributed to drinking makes for some grim reading.

  • 14% of all road deaths in Britain are alcohol related
  • Alcohol is the cause of 25% of workplace accidents

“But I don’t drink and drive and I definitely don’t go to work drunk”

In 2016/17 there were 337,000 admissions to hospital that were attributed to alcohol. Not all of them were driving or workplace accidents. Harrowing figures.

https://digital.nhs.uk/data-and-information/publications/statistical/statistics-on-alcohol/2018/part-1

9: Less sickness – Alcohol is a poison. Alcohol damages pretty much every major and minor organ in your body either directly or indirectly. When you drink your body is working overtime to get rid of the alcohol from your system. In doing so your body gets worn down and becomes less effective at fighting off other illness. This is why you are more likely to get sick if you are a consistent drinker.

Quitting drinking will give your body back its fighting capacity which will mean any illnesses that come your way are more likely to be batted away before causing any harm.

10: Heightened senses – Just like Spiderman.

Two sober people meet in alleyway

Well not exactly like Spiderman. You won’t be swinging from webs any time soon just because you stopped drinking. What you will find is that your senses become sharper. You will see better, hear better and even taste/smell better. This is because over time alcohol has numbed your senses. Once the alcohol is out of your system these senses will start to come back.

11: Increased Self Worth – More money, more free time, no hangovers, less illness, more productive. No more feeling shame every morning. No more hiding. Tell me all of that won’t make you feel better about yourself.

Once the ale stops being a factor in your life so many things will improve that you will be hard pressed to not feel good about yourself.

12: Better relationships – When you drink your relationships suffer. The only relationships that really thrive are the ones with your drinking buddies. Can you really call these type of acquaintances friends though? Or are they more like people who are in the vicinity of you when you are drinking.

When you stop drinking you will notice that your friends and family have a lot more time for you. Even friends you haven’t spoke to for a while may begin to reappear in your life. Because newsflash the reason you stopped hanging out in the first place wasn’t because you drifted apart, but because they were sick of drunk you.

13: Better health –

This is a great quick video (just 7 minutes) that runs through 50 different ways in which alcohol messes with our health.

14: Better mental health – Alcohol is a depressant that messes with your hormone levels. Particularly with your serotonin and dopamine levels. When you drink the level of these chemicals in your body will begin to rise. This is why you often feel good at the beginning of a drinking session. However over time, and into the next day(s), these levels will plummet and have you feeling depressed.

Stop drinking and these levels will revert to normal and you will begin to have a much better mental outlook.

15: Better looks – Alcohol dehydrates the skin which speeds up the aging process. It also causes that red blotchy look that you see on old drunks in pubs.

Quitting drinking will stop your skin from being constantly caught up in this dehydration cycle and will have your skin looking younger than ever. Also lack of dry, wrinkly, red skin is definitely a better look for everyone.

16: Better sleep – Have you ever had 9+ hours sleep after a bender, one of those sleeps where you are completely out to the world, but still wake up feeling tired? That’s the alcohol.

When you are drunk your body is unable to get into what is known as REM sleep as effectively as when you are sober. REM is the mentally restorative stage of sleep. So when you don’t get enough of it your brain is still going to feel tired.

Stop drinking and you will feel much more refreshed while getting less sleep than usual.

17: Better sex life – Alcohol related performance issues. Need I say more?

18: Better career prospects – Put yourself in your employer’s position. Who are you going to give extra responsibilities to? Who are you going to give that promotion to? Who can you rely on to get the job done?

Drunk/Hungover all the time you,

or sober you?

Yeah it’s a no brainer really

19: It is not too late – your body can heal itself – When you quit drinking:

  • Your heart gets healthier
  • Your liver may heal
  • Your risk of developing cancers will potentially lower
  • Your blood pressure will lower
  • Your brain will get more efficient (refined motor skills, improved memory etc.)

Now I am no doctor, just a fellow alcohol abuser in recovery, so I cannot claim to understand the science behind all of this. But if you want more info I recommend viewing the full slideshow and researching further at the below link:

https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/addiction/ss/slideshow-quit-alcohol-effects

The cliff-notes of the above presentation are that it is not too late to repair/reverse some of the damage done through drinking.

Already decided to stop drinking? – Join the discussion and share your reasons in the comments below. Your post might persuade others to stop drinking for themselves.

Celebrate your Sobriety Milestones

Written by Mike Jacobsen.

It is important that you forgive yourself for your mistakes. A slip up is not the end of the world. Just pick yourself back up and carry on – do not let small lapses turn into lengthy detours from sobriety.

Probably just as important as forgiving yourself for mistakes is to reward yourself for achievements. Whether this is by small things like ordering your favorite dessert after every week sober, or big things like a nice trip after 6 months. What ever it is make sure you take the time out and really reflect on how far you have come and give thanks to yourself for getting you there.

Why are milestones important for maintaining sobriety?

  • Milestones are signals of accomplishment. It shows that we have grown as people. Particularly important when we are trying to grow out of drinking and into our new sober lifestyle.
  • Milestones provide structure and discipline to an otherwise lawless process.
  • A reward at key milestones will help you keep on track by providing further incentives to hit your sobriety goals.
  • Milestones allow other people to recognize the steps you’ve taken. Being able to tell your partner that you have gone 1 week/month/year without a drink is a fantastic feeling for both parties.

I celebrate milestones by taking trips. For big milestones I take a few days to a week. For smaller milestones I try to get out of the city for the weekend. This is great as it allows me and my SO to have a nice little vacation, plus the reward itself is paid for by my sobriety. The money I spend is the money I would have wasted on drink!

I also don’t stress the ‘big number’. The milestones I set myself aren’t about reaching some high score. No they are about how I feel at the time and what is a big achievement for me.

How are you going to celebrate your minor and major sobriety milestones?

IWNDWYT – I will not drink with you today!

So much free time now I have quit drinking!

Written by Mike Jacobsen.

Right now it is 9:56am on a Saturday morning.

So far today I have done 45 minutes on my exercise bike. I have walked the dog for an hour. And I have made and eaten a nice healthy breakfast.

And for the rest of the day I have plans to go and watch the football. Catch a film with my SO. And if there’s time; go shopping so I do not run out of food!

If I was still drinking I would be in bed right now. Plans for later would have been to get up and go to the pub. Watch the football in the pub. Stay in the pub after the football. Eat some unhealthy fast food on the way home. Collapse onto couch and fall asleep.

Looking at the options right now I have no idea why I ever chose the drinking option. Not drinking leaves me with so much more free time plus the things I get to do are either more fun or more productive – unless house chores are fun for you in which case more power to you!

Just this week alone I have done so many things that otherwise would have been done poorly, late or just plain not at all.

  • Kept up with the housework. Now my house is no longer a cesspit
  • Organised and paid all of my bills. No more late fees because I was too drunk or hungover to pay the damn bills.
  • Caught up with friends. It is important to keep social after all.
  • Kept up with the exercise for me and my dog. I barely walked the dog before relying on my SO to take care of him.
  • Really excelled in work. No more half or zero productive days where I barely keep awake for the whole shift.
  • Enrolled in a cooking class. Eating healthier is a lot easier when you know what you are doing!

And even after all that I still have a bunch of free time to sit on the couch watching TV or playing games. Maybe I need a new hobby.

What do you guys do for fun now that you have so much free time? (share in the comments below)

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Did I Ever Really Enjoy Drinking?

Written by Mike Jacobsen.

Looking in from the outside any reasonable person would assume that I loved to drink. Particularly after seeing the quantity I would put away on a night out.

But appearances are often deceiving.

While someone looking in might see a happy, ‘life of the party’, drunk. What they are not seeing is the number of pre-drinks that were put away before this point. Nor are they likely to see the post-drinks that are yet to be put away. Those late late night drinks after everyone else is long in bed.

They also don’t see the constant strategizing that takes place. The constant thinking about where the next beer will come from.

They also don’t see the fear that is running through my mind. What if someone finds out how much I have drank? What will they say? What if they tell others?

They also don’t see the next day. The sweats, the headaches, the nausea. The dread that washes over you when waking up and you have to run through everything you did the night before to see if there’s anything you need to apologize for today.

No. Nobody sees all of this. That is just between us and the booze.

So did I actually enjoy drinking? No I don’t think I did. It was just something I felt I had to do.

And that is what I tell myself whenever the urge to drink crops up. What is the point in throwing away my sobriety. Especially for something I didn’t even enjoy doing in the first place.

IWNDWYT – I will not drink with you today

The Only True Hangover Cure

Written by Mike Jacobsen.

My dad always tells us that the secret to surviving a heavy drinking session is a big greasy fry up the next day.

My mum swears a glass of water before bed leaves her feeling tip top in the morning.

A friend of mine will wake up, eat a power bar, go for a 30 minute jog and then go back to sleep. Swears down he feels 100% when he wakes back up.

My old goto was ‘the hair of the dog’. A few cans of beer first thing and I was good to go. Well so I thought. A few would invariably turn into many and the day would be over before it had even begun.

No.

The only true way to defeat the hangover is to avoid playing the game in the first place.

No booze = No Hangover

No more of these old wives tales about how many raw eggs and tomato juice it takes to replenish your electrolytes.
No more waking up with a splitting headache and a mouth dryer than the Sahara Desert.
No more ten hour sleeps that seem to have given you zero energy back.
No more “am I going to be sick? Yep think so” moments

Just think about how much more productive your day can be without a hangover. I know any day where my head is hurting from a big session is inevitably going to be a write off. Absolutely nothing of note will happen that day.

Whereas last Sunday, I was up early to exercise. Had lunch with some family who were in town. Played a little football in the park. Went the cinema with my SO and did some studying for some professional qualifications I want to sit.

So much better than lying on the couch with a bucket re-watching boxsets while feeling sorry for myself.

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